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Friday, July 22, 2011
傻傻等到奇迹出现的那一天
Perhaps it is really stupid to wait for something that is never going to happen. It is so painful. But I cannot bring myself to do otherwise. You will never understand. Somehow I feel it is all worth it. It is so difficult, so heart - breaking. Yet I still hope for a miracle.
Sunday, July 17, 2011
太在乎
"太在乎一个人，心情常被左右，剩下只有心痛。如果我不在乎你，我不会变得这么脆弱；不会在意你做的每件事；不会静静的想着你发呆；不会记住你说的每句 话； 不会珍惜与你在一起的时候；不会总是不由自主的想起你；不会这么轻易地让痛苦折磨自己；不会为了一些小事跟你争执。这一切只因为我在乎你."
Even though it is frustrating at times, I won't change it a little bit, every moment is beautiful, every moment is precious. Kept deep in my heart.
Even though it is frustrating at times, I won't change it a little bit, every moment is beautiful, every moment is precious. Kept deep in my heart.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Blog for Librans!
Came across this blog article while I was hunting for good blogs... what really surprised me is that everything in this is so true! O____O I have never believed in star signs' describing people's characteristics and personality ...but I am having second thoughts after reading this :P
天秤座的女生很聪明，很敏感，有着非同寻常的洞察力。一个细小的举动，一个不经意的眼神，都逃不过她的眼睛，她善于分析，善于捕捉身边所有的异常。也许，也是因为太聪明，所以容易快乐，也容易悲伤。她经常对自己说，做人，还是简单比较容易快乐，可是，谁能告诉秤儿，怎样才能变得迟钝？
天秤座的女生很善良，看到流浪的小狗小猫，都会心生怜惜，看到落魄的精神病患者在垃圾堆里找食物，就会黯然伤神，秤儿想，他们的亲人呢？这样的遗弃，于心何忍？世界真的那么冷漠吗？温情都到那里去了？往往秤儿家里都会养些小动物，此时此刻，你是否会，不由自主的伸出双手，想给秤儿一个安慰的拥抱。
天秤座的女生很坚强，有时候，坚强得不可思议。秤儿一直认为，可以付出也是一种幸福，秤儿的付出很多都不求回报，只求一个完美的结果。孝字立中间，情义站两旁，可惜，仁义忠孝总难全，固执的秤儿，从来不放弃自己的原则，就这样坚持，坚持，心甘情愿的，为所爱托起一片晴天。
天秤座女生很柔弱，有时候，柔若得仿似春水。谁都不明白，秤儿为什么会有那么多的忧愁，一颗心可容天下，却为何容不下自己？受伤了，秤子放眼瞭望，好想寻找一个安全宁静的空间，慢慢的修复，那颗千疮百孔的心，一次一次的面临选择。
天秤座的女生很固执的相信，只要你想，没什么不可能。相信一颗善良的心可以感化一切，相信美丽与智慧联手，就可以所向无敌。但是，后来，经历了太多的世事，秤儿的心慢慢的变得沧桑起来。
天秤座的女生很梦幻，喜欢美丽的童话故事，秤儿想，善良的睡美人，总有一天，会等到王子那倾心一吻，从此逍遥自在，双宿双飞。秤儿宁愿让自己活在梦里，永远不要醒来，宁愿相信有前世今生，相信因果循环。
天秤座的女生很天真，大家都说，贫穷夫妻百事哀，可秤儿不这样认为。如果秤儿爱你，就算你一无所有，她也会义无反顾跟你在一起，她愿意与你风雨同舟，携手创业。如果秤儿不爱你，就算你家财万贯，她也不会动心，因为她明白，她想找的，是一个志同道合的终身伴侣，而不是一堆金钱，爱人可以陪秤儿谈天说地，会拉着秤儿的手，给她安全的感觉，带她去看海，回归田园，放风筝，吹泡泡，这一切的一切，金钱不可替代。如果你爱上天秤座，请送她一把狗尾巴草，说你爱她，拾子之手，与子偕老，那秤儿肯定感动得一塌糊涂。
天秤座女生，习惯于藏住自己的伤，白天笑靥如花般绽放，夜晚却会将所有的伤与痛舒展开来，细心的拾捡。
天秤座女子的爱是无私的，她会为你付出一切，甚至是生命也在所不惜。她会永远站在你的角度思考，为你着想，这是一种珍贵的、深度的善解人意。
天秤座的女子天生有一种懒性，连多说两句话也不愿，她希望别人能很快领悟到她内心要表达的想法。秤儿还非常注重细节，她每时每刻都在留意别人的言行举动，看不到就去听，听不到就去猜，即使她在认真工作时也要分一点心来留意周围发生的事情。她可以因为某个细节喜欢上一个人，也会因为某个细节而讨厌一个人。
天秤座女子的心灵太敏感，她对物质无所求，唯独对爱要求得很高，她的心是易碎的玻璃。
天秤座的女子更容易受到伤害，因为她们有天生敏锐的第六感，她不在乎金钱、地位，但她在乎被爱，她容易感到寂寞、孤独。如果你伤害了她，她会把错误先揽在自己一边去原谅你。但是当她发现自己无力再承受这爱的痛苦时，她会安静的走开，选择放弃。不要对她说谎，再高明的谎言也逃不过她的敏锐。不要以为她不知道你在欺骗，她不动声色只是因为她在思考，没有做出最后决定，而她的决定，通常情況下都是放弃，即便她对你有无限的爱和不舍。她的绝望与崩溃不会让你看到，哪怕她痛苦到极点，你看到的，仍然是一个平靜的天秤座女子，顶多，有些冷漠，那冷漠也未必是针对你，很可能，是针对爱的。
天秤座女子很会流泪，但她不会在別人面前流泪，只有到了夜晚，一个人躲在角落，享受孤独，享受寂寞，留下眼泪。她们太会掩饰，即使受伤，也会和朋友谈笑风生，似乎看不出她们的一点点忧伤。因为她不要好友分担她的痛苦。做她的好友可以永远分享她的乐观和阳光。
天秤座的女子对自己爱的人，所要的回报甚少，只要一句：我爱你。就可以让天秤座女子感动得天昏地暗，为此而记住一辈子。
被天秤座女子爱的人与天秤座的女子怄气，她会在夜晚想着你的好或者不好，高兴或者难过地默默流泪。她会设身处地为你想很多很多，甚至想得太周到连你自己都想不到的周到。她会为你的某个失误找各种各样的借口，在质问你之前已经原谅了你，但是还是要你一个解释，一个简单的合理或者不合理的解释就轻易能让它释怀。
爱上天秤座的人是痛苦的，如果天秤座爱的不是你。结果往往是对天秤座又爱又恨又不愿放弃。
如果你爱上天秤座女子并相爱，也许你会觉得很幸福，因为天秤座女子的爱是纯洁的，不会有任何杂质。也许你会觉得很痛苦，因为天秤座女子的爱太纯洁，不能有一点欺骗。
被天秤座女子爱的人，请你好好爱她，珍惜她，因为她值得.
送给天枰座的女孩，也送给爱上天枰座女孩的男孩!
天秤座的女生很聪明，很敏感，有着非同寻常的洞察力。一个细小的举动，一个不经意的眼神，都逃不过她的眼睛，她善于分析，善于捕捉身边所有的异常。也许，也是因为太聪明，所以容易快乐，也容易悲伤。她经常对自己说，做人，还是简单比较容易快乐，可是，谁能告诉秤儿，怎样才能变得迟钝？
天秤座的女生很善良，看到流浪的小狗小猫，都会心生怜惜，看到落魄的精神病患者在垃圾堆里找食物，就会黯然伤神，秤儿想，他们的亲人呢？这样的遗弃，于心何忍？世界真的那么冷漠吗？温情都到那里去了？往往秤儿家里都会养些小动物，此时此刻，你是否会，不由自主的伸出双手，想给秤儿一个安慰的拥抱。
天秤座的女生很坚强，有时候，坚强得不可思议。秤儿一直认为，可以付出也是一种幸福，秤儿的付出很多都不求回报，只求一个完美的结果。孝字立中间，情义站两旁，可惜，仁义忠孝总难全，固执的秤儿，从来不放弃自己的原则，就这样坚持，坚持，心甘情愿的，为所爱托起一片晴天。
天秤座女生很柔弱，有时候，柔若得仿似春水。谁都不明白，秤儿为什么会有那么多的忧愁，一颗心可容天下，却为何容不下自己？受伤了，秤子放眼瞭望，好想寻找一个安全宁静的空间，慢慢的修复，那颗千疮百孔的心，一次一次的面临选择。
天秤座的女生很固执的相信，只要你想，没什么不可能。相信一颗善良的心可以感化一切，相信美丽与智慧联手，就可以所向无敌。但是，后来，经历了太多的世事，秤儿的心慢慢的变得沧桑起来。
天秤座的女生很梦幻，喜欢美丽的童话故事，秤儿想，善良的睡美人，总有一天，会等到王子那倾心一吻，从此逍遥自在，双宿双飞。秤儿宁愿让自己活在梦里，永远不要醒来，宁愿相信有前世今生，相信因果循环。
天秤座的女生很天真，大家都说，贫穷夫妻百事哀，可秤儿不这样认为。如果秤儿爱你，就算你一无所有，她也会义无反顾跟你在一起，她愿意与你风雨同舟，携手创业。如果秤儿不爱你，就算你家财万贯，她也不会动心，因为她明白，她想找的，是一个志同道合的终身伴侣，而不是一堆金钱，爱人可以陪秤儿谈天说地，会拉着秤儿的手，给她安全的感觉，带她去看海，回归田园，放风筝，吹泡泡，这一切的一切，金钱不可替代。如果你爱上天秤座，请送她一把狗尾巴草，说你爱她，拾子之手，与子偕老，那秤儿肯定感动得一塌糊涂。
天秤座女生，习惯于藏住自己的伤，白天笑靥如花般绽放，夜晚却会将所有的伤与痛舒展开来，细心的拾捡。
天秤座女子的爱是无私的，她会为你付出一切，甚至是生命也在所不惜。她会永远站在你的角度思考，为你着想，这是一种珍贵的、深度的善解人意。
天秤座的女子天生有一种懒性，连多说两句话也不愿，她希望别人能很快领悟到她内心要表达的想法。秤儿还非常注重细节，她每时每刻都在留意别人的言行举动，看不到就去听，听不到就去猜，即使她在认真工作时也要分一点心来留意周围发生的事情。她可以因为某个细节喜欢上一个人，也会因为某个细节而讨厌一个人。
天秤座女子的心灵太敏感，她对物质无所求，唯独对爱要求得很高，她的心是易碎的玻璃。
天秤座的女子更容易受到伤害，因为她们有天生敏锐的第六感，她不在乎金钱、地位，但她在乎被爱，她容易感到寂寞、孤独。如果你伤害了她，她会把错误先揽在自己一边去原谅你。但是当她发现自己无力再承受这爱的痛苦时，她会安静的走开，选择放弃。不要对她说谎，再高明的谎言也逃不过她的敏锐。不要以为她不知道你在欺骗，她不动声色只是因为她在思考，没有做出最后决定，而她的决定，通常情況下都是放弃，即便她对你有无限的爱和不舍。她的绝望与崩溃不会让你看到，哪怕她痛苦到极点，你看到的，仍然是一个平靜的天秤座女子，顶多，有些冷漠，那冷漠也未必是针对你，很可能，是针对爱的。
天秤座女子很会流泪，但她不会在別人面前流泪，只有到了夜晚，一个人躲在角落，享受孤独，享受寂寞，留下眼泪。她们太会掩饰，即使受伤，也会和朋友谈笑风生，似乎看不出她们的一点点忧伤。因为她不要好友分担她的痛苦。做她的好友可以永远分享她的乐观和阳光。
天秤座的女子对自己爱的人，所要的回报甚少，只要一句：我爱你。就可以让天秤座女子感动得天昏地暗，为此而记住一辈子。
被天秤座女子爱的人与天秤座的女子怄气，她会在夜晚想着你的好或者不好，高兴或者难过地默默流泪。她会设身处地为你想很多很多，甚至想得太周到连你自己都想不到的周到。她会为你的某个失误找各种各样的借口，在质问你之前已经原谅了你，但是还是要你一个解释，一个简单的合理或者不合理的解释就轻易能让它释怀。
爱上天秤座的人是痛苦的，如果天秤座爱的不是你。结果往往是对天秤座又爱又恨又不愿放弃。
如果你爱上天秤座女子并相爱，也许你会觉得很幸福，因为天秤座女子的爱是纯洁的，不会有任何杂质。也许你会觉得很痛苦，因为天秤座女子的爱太纯洁，不能有一点欺骗。
被天秤座女子爱的人，请你好好爱她，珍惜她，因为她值得.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
哭过就好了
哭过就好了 - 梁文音
'我从来都不说不， 不是因为我愿意， 是因为我爱你
我从来都不生气， 不是因为我没有脾气， 是因为我爱你
我从来都不哭，不是因为我没有眼泪，是因为我爱你'
哭过了,泪干了, 长大了, 也更坚强了!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Love Will Find A Way
I recently watched Lion King 2, this song has touched me once again! Reminded me that love is truly the most beautiful thing in the world. Its power and complexity is beyond what we can ever imagine. Love conquers anything. It makes miracles happen. Believe and trust in it...it'll find a way! =)
Love Will Find A Way - Lion King 2
KIARA:
In a perfect world
One we've never known
We would never need to face the world alone
They can have the world
We'll create our own
I may not be brave or strong or smart
But somewhere in my secret heart
I know
Love will find a way
Anywhere I go
I'm home
If you are there beside me
Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way
KOVU:
I was so afraid
Now I realize
Love is never wrong
And so it never dies
There's a perfect world
Shining in your eyes
KIARA and KOVU:
And if only they could feel it too
The happiness I feel with you
They'd know
Love will find a way
Anywhere we go
We're home
If we are there together
Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way
I know love will find a way
In a perfect world
One we've never known
We would never need to face the world alone
They can have the world
We'll create our own
I may not be brave or strong or smart
But somewhere in my secret heart
I know
Love will find a way
Anywhere I go
I'm home
If you are there beside me
Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way
KOVU:
I was so afraid
Now I realize
Love is never wrong
And so it never dies
There's a perfect world
Shining in your eyes
KIARA and KOVU:
And if only they could feel it too
The happiness I feel with you
They'd know
Love will find a way
Anywhere we go
We're home
If we are there together
Like dark turning into day
Somehow we'll come through
Now that I've found you
Love will find a way
I know love will find a way
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Make each day of your life exciting!
It's currently 2am and I am once again in deep thought. Somehow, post - midnight hours is where I ponder about my life, about what's ahead of me and what I have done in the past. From that often flow realisations about myself, and a refreshed and new attitude to everything around me. I love it because I feel like I learn something new each time.
This time around, it was the film 'Dead Poet's Society' that inspired me to reflect upon my life. I first watched it in Year 9 English Class, where it made a deep and indelible impact in my mind and life with its powerful message - Carpe Diem - Seize the Day - Make your lives Extraordinary.' At the time, I was extremely moved by that line, I immediately thought: is this how I am living my life? Come to think of it now, even though I was inspired by the film and what it purports, I have never truly taken up the challenge. Now, as a third year university student, I think the message has finally sunk in. I think it is really time to truly believe in myself make each day count.
We cannot always hide in our shells. We must get out there and do things beyond what we think we can. Impossibility is subjective. We can always stretch or extend the scope of it, as long as we try our hardest. Courage goes a long way.
So my dear friends, let's free our wings and fly. Forget fear, forget the standards and expectations of society, forget conformity, forget worries. Let us light our passion and our enthusiasm. Let us try new and exciting things each day. Learn new things, see things from new perspectives. Make our lives extraordinary!
I think it is at this moment that I am truly able to understand the meaning of this film. It is time to integrate this into my life. I would like to thank two of my dear friends here who talked about this beautiful film to me. Thank you for reminding me that life is worth us giving it all. You know who you are! :)
This time around, it was the film 'Dead Poet's Society' that inspired me to reflect upon my life. I first watched it in Year 9 English Class, where it made a deep and indelible impact in my mind and life with its powerful message - Carpe Diem - Seize the Day - Make your lives Extraordinary.' At the time, I was extremely moved by that line, I immediately thought: is this how I am living my life? Come to think of it now, even though I was inspired by the film and what it purports, I have never truly taken up the challenge. Now, as a third year university student, I think the message has finally sunk in. I think it is really time to truly believe in myself make each day count.
We cannot always hide in our shells. We must get out there and do things beyond what we think we can. Impossibility is subjective. We can always stretch or extend the scope of it, as long as we try our hardest. Courage goes a long way.
So my dear friends, let's free our wings and fly. Forget fear, forget the standards and expectations of society, forget conformity, forget worries. Let us light our passion and our enthusiasm. Let us try new and exciting things each day. Learn new things, see things from new perspectives. Make our lives extraordinary!
I think it is at this moment that I am truly able to understand the meaning of this film. It is time to integrate this into my life. I would like to thank two of my dear friends here who talked about this beautiful film to me. Thank you for reminding me that life is worth us giving it all. You know who you are! :)
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Failing is not failure, giving up is!
We all fail at certain things sometimes. It may seem like it is the end of the world, it may seem like we have failed ourselves, our hopes and dreams may seem crushed. Unbearable pain, sadness and the utter disappointment overwhelms us. We think there is no way out, no way up, the path to success blocked or strewn with uncrossable obstacles. We think we can never get back up, we can never reach our desired destination.
However, little do we know, a stumble will not bring about the end of us. We are still capable of getting back up, we are still perfectly able to keep going, keep trudging, keep fighting. There are so many people out there today, who are battling for their lives with every remaining breath in their lungs. A fall is merely just a precious opportunity for us to reflect what has happened and to make new plans and improvements as we see fit. Believe it or not, we have to constantly make mistakes so that we can change for the better. No one is perfect at everything. Everyone has experience of failures. Failure itself is not destructive, it is the fact that we cannot get up that crushes us. It is through these setbacks that we become stronger, wiser and more of a conqueror.
Life is not always smooth. There will be pain and there will be tears. But under no circumstances should we give up! People always say that when a door closes, a new one opens. Many of us spend a long time looking at the closed door with regret and disappointment that we don't ever see the new door that is waiting for us to open and enter. Life is a journey and an adventure. If it always goes according to our expectations and wishes, then it won't be exciting at all! On the other hand, if life is full of ups and downs, laughter and tears, then life would be very thrilling and memorable - and when we have finally reached our destination, the victory will feel extra special and sweet.
You may remember a conversation from Lord of the Rings - The Fellowship of the Ring, where Frodo told Gandalf 'I wish the ring never came to me, I wish none of this has happened.' Then Gandalf replied 'So do all of us who live during such times, but that is not for us to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.' Sometimes we cannot control what happens in our lives. When something bad has occurred, we are always given choices as to what to do about it. We can either regret and be upset and blame ourselves over it or we can be courageous and try our best with what we have to make things better. We have all we need to make our dreams come true, if we just believe. Never ever lose hope. It is the beacon to success, it is like a candle warming our hearts and showing us the way when we are engulfed by darkness. We cannot always change the circumstances we are in, but we can always hope and trust in ourselves. We must never let go of our dreams!
加油！要永远坚持下去！
However, little do we know, a stumble will not bring about the end of us. We are still capable of getting back up, we are still perfectly able to keep going, keep trudging, keep fighting. There are so many people out there today, who are battling for their lives with every remaining breath in their lungs. A fall is merely just a precious opportunity for us to reflect what has happened and to make new plans and improvements as we see fit. Believe it or not, we have to constantly make mistakes so that we can change for the better. No one is perfect at everything. Everyone has experience of failures. Failure itself is not destructive, it is the fact that we cannot get up that crushes us. It is through these setbacks that we become stronger, wiser and more of a conqueror.
Life is not always smooth. There will be pain and there will be tears. But under no circumstances should we give up! People always say that when a door closes, a new one opens. Many of us spend a long time looking at the closed door with regret and disappointment that we don't ever see the new door that is waiting for us to open and enter. Life is a journey and an adventure. If it always goes according to our expectations and wishes, then it won't be exciting at all! On the other hand, if life is full of ups and downs, laughter and tears, then life would be very thrilling and memorable - and when we have finally reached our destination, the victory will feel extra special and sweet.
You may remember a conversation from Lord of the Rings - The Fellowship of the Ring, where Frodo told Gandalf 'I wish the ring never came to me, I wish none of this has happened.' Then Gandalf replied 'So do all of us who live during such times, but that is not for us to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.' Sometimes we cannot control what happens in our lives. When something bad has occurred, we are always given choices as to what to do about it. We can either regret and be upset and blame ourselves over it or we can be courageous and try our best with what we have to make things better. We have all we need to make our dreams come true, if we just believe. Never ever lose hope. It is the beacon to success, it is like a candle warming our hearts and showing us the way when we are engulfed by darkness. We cannot always change the circumstances we are in, but we can always hope and trust in ourselves. We must never let go of our dreams!
加油！要永远坚持下去！
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